Parents, our saviour

When we say parents, the first thing that comes in mind is what have our parents done to make us so against us. Whether they give us no freedom, or disapprove of what we plan to do, or go against our will, or sometimes even humiliate us in public. When we ask why, they would quote 'is for your own good!!'

Yes, I do admit that I sometimes do dislike my parents alot. I wouldn't use the hate word, but yes I do dislike. My parents would prevent me from going on outings that I really want to go, they would give me lectures that are given to me uncountable times, they would not comfort me when i'm down, and when i'm young, there would cane me for the slightest mistakes and they never pick me up from the ground when I fall down.

When I was young, I used to dislike my parents doing so. I see other kids walking with their parents and their parents would fuss over them with various kind of reason, either if the food suits there appetite or whether the clothes they were are 'presentable' to the society in their age. For me, there was no fussing. What was set by them, I would have to follow. Like it or not, eat it or leave it. That was how I have been brought up.

As I grow up, I faced various obstacles that made me turn to my parents for a solution. The outcome wouldn't be what I expected, instead they would turn the whole thing around and end up with a solution that is not related to my problem. We would often argue about my opinions and their opinion but however hard I argued, they always get their say and end up being mad at each other.

Now that I'm 18, I finally came to my senses that my parents do so to protect me, they have been on earth longer then I did and of course more experience then a mere teenager like me. They've gone through more obstacles and overcame tough ones then I did. And they did so to prepare me for the world I'm about to face. And I learn to come to the fact that my parents will always be who they are and no one will be able to change them. Even if they did something to hurt you in anyway, a filial child would still respect them as parents.

Recently I've heard numerous events about children abandoning their own parents after achieving success in the working industry. Apparently, there is a family, a very rich family, after secondary school, they send their children overseas to get the best education the ministry could offer. However, after they graduate, find a job and settle down, they tend to forget everything back at their hometown. Their home, their friends, their family, and even their parents.

Pfffffft..!!!!!!!!! SAY WHAT???? Children abandoning their own parents is the utmost sinful thing a child could every do! Parents give us life and they gave us the opportunity to see the world and live our life to the fullest... Without them, I don't think you'll be reading this blog anyway. Without your dad's sperm and your mum's ovule, you're nothing but a piece of shit!

You can actually brush your parents away especially when they make the tendency to visit you in 'your' foreign" land??? THAT is sinful, and no doubt, disrespectful... How could a person do that??? Your parents teach you everything you need to know, they kept danger away from you, they shower you with love and respect, and most of all, they gave you life. THIS is how you repay them?? By brushing them away, by ignoring their phone calls, by burning all their wish cards, by scolding them harsh words and NOT accepting them as your parents...

If that's the case, you are not worthy to be a son/daughter in the first place... You can go wherever and be successful but if people would find out that you don't have parents aka have parents but don't want to acknowledge them, you will be knock down on the ground so badly until you are LOWER than the ground, i can guarantee you that you losers!!!!

A friendly advice for all kids/teenagers who are still learning how to be filial to your parents which I doubt not many are.... Do appreciate your parents in every way is possible, they will always love you no matter what, they are your parents and you have to accept that no matter what. Parents are our saviour in everyway they are. Sometimes they might be hurtful and sometimes they might be harsh, but whatever it is, is for your own good~~~

Plus, they might not be around everytime to guide you in your life. At a point of life, they have to leave us to a better place, and if only then you start to appreciate them, is just a little to late... Parents have lived a longer life then us and gained more experience then us. Give them the chance to guide us, and they might lead us to a more successful life then we can gain. At least what we achieve in life, is their 'profit' or proud moment, to be the parents of such child.

Is just a few minutes to show your appreciation or your graditute to your parents. Just a simple kiss every morning or a simple phone call could cheer them up everyday. And is doesn't every cost a single cent. Parents are the only people in the world we could trust. And they are the only ones that are willing to sacrifice everything in the world for their children..

Overall....

PARENTS OUR SAVIOUR

Bare that in mind!!

Mum..... Dad..... I love you~~~~~

P.S... Don't take this the wrong way.... I ain't rubbing your backside for getting something I want.. I am sincere here..... Guides honour!! heheh

Where is it???

I need inspiration to blog... Like mad seriously!!!

Too desperate already...!!!!!!!

Pudu Prison

I know, this is a very very very very old issue....

But I just wanna state my opinion...

Everytime I wait for the bus opposite pudu prison, I stare at that wall for distraction.... Now that that thing is destroyed, it is a shame as I usually spot ang mohs there admiring the painting...

Although is not a tourist spot but still, it is a very attractive place for foreigners to visit...

My mum and I made a short trip there to collect some of the wall 'specimens' as souvenir... And yes, it is still at my house.... But we did snap some pics with my mum's phone.....

We did collect small pieces of it especially the exterior of the wall where the painting was... It can be a cool souvenir though..... ^^

Hidious pic of me~~~~~ Pay no attention to that standing figure =P

Chao!!!

Outing with Suki and Lisa

You know, what I realize was, after graduation, the only people that I really kept in touch is Lisa and Suki. It seems like they were the only 'living being' willing to make time for a small gathering or just a normal 'yum cha' session... I don't know, that's just my opinion.

Anyway, recently, 3 of did had a spontaneous outing in Bukit Bintang once again. Initially we were suppose to shop for clothes and ya, I did want to buy clothes..... I admit that.....

We were walking and walking like nobody business and the two girls were all going cuckoo with every shop they pass by while I was struggling to find MY type of clothes... I don't see a single army pants or a hoodie top in the whole bukit bintang area..... *pissed!!!!

I actually wasted my day + going back empty handed..... * pissed square

But we did take ridiculous pictures...... In DA TOILET........ hahahahah

Of all the places they have to choose the toilet....... Y la aiyor.....

Anyway here are the pics..... If you see a toilet bowl, just ignore it, instead, pay attention to the person IN da picture, doesn't it sound more rational to do so?? *wink

As you can see from the picture on the above left, they are busy camwhoring with their own phones.... Can even compare somemore!!!!! X perasan ke Aw Maxinf standing here??

So at last, Aw Maxine decide to hyp things up~~~~

Driving Lessons and Driving test

Ok, before this I was having a few sessions of driving lesson and this was actually my last driving session before my real test...

So I actually drove all the way to sungai buluh to go through my test syllubus with my instructor... I was doing fine especially on the road. I seldom make any mistakes and could mostly handle myself without any instructing from my instructor....

As usual, we did the going up the hill, parking and 3 point turn... after a few rounds, the instructor gave me a pre-test and i failed the 3 point turn as I was going too fast with the clutch... so I had to repeat the 3 point turn again and again after I got it right.

After that, I DID go cuckoo over the 3 point turn... I called suki and clarissa and they also thought WTH happened to me... heheheh. Ya so overalled I could say i was alright with the syllubus but I wasn't that confident in passing the test....

During the real test, turns out that I REALLY did failed the test..... Reasons?

1. Too nervous

2. Scare failed

3. High expectations of ppl??

But all along I'm trying to overcome this matter, but Just don't know how.... I sort of trying to psycho myself but that's not gonna work with negative surroundings.... Anyway... Good luck to me for my next round of test~~heheheheh

Really really really late updates.......

26/7-28/7

Had our first test in Form 6..... Had a 'deciding on what to do' issue and transfered into arts one week before the test and yeay me???? Results wasn't that encouraging....

Society

You know what, recently, a friend phone me up and told me about her difficulties in finishing her assignment. She is pursuing her diploma in hotel management and she's currently doing her first assignment, that is requesting a 5 star hotel manager to bring them around the hotel at the same time introducing the aspects of becoming a hotel manager and maybe considering it as a future career.

So, after receiving all the approval letters from her college authorities, she started her work in a team and started to choose a hotel for her assignment. I'm not going to stat what hotel she chose because obviously if I'd do that, it'll be bad for the hotel's reputation, not that my blog is viewed worldwide.

Anyway, after choosing hotel A, she started off emailing her request and approval letter to the hotel management, hoping they would reply her ASAP. Instead, after sending tonns of email, calling them day and night, faxing them the letter several times, my friend still did not get a single reply. Which really brought her into a 'damsel in distress' situation and ended calling me for a solution. @.@

Ok, this is the thing. What I see was, in the hotel management business, they are practically lack of people and stuff, sometimes I even see stuff running up and down the hotel multitasking due to lack of staff.

As a manager of the hotel, I know that the main objective is to produce more income for the hotel but seeing the staff being so insufficient, don't the manager ever though of how to involve more people into the hotel management business?

Is a rare chance that students pursuing hotel management course would call up a hotel to request a quick tour around the hotel. Hotel managers could actually use this chance to offer them a place in the hotel and maybe ask them to consider their hotel as their future career. A chance like this don't come often and I think is really ridiculous that hotels don't take this opportunity to increase staff enrolment.

Is similar to a case like a beggar is already suffering from poverty and when people offer money, her refuse to take it out of pride. Stupid isn't it? If there's chance right in front of you, grab it before other people grabs it. Don't turn now chances because of pride and self-image. People might criticize you now but later, you'll get the better times.

Is just too bad that people nowadays don't think that way....